( last login Oct 7, 2025 ad #120713 )

Location: |
Redding, California |
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Age: |
59 years old | |
Gender: |
male | |
Ethnicity: |
Mixed | |
Diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Religion: |
spiritual | |
Alcohol: |
Infrequently | |
Smokes: |
Never | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Height: |
6' 0" (183cm) | |
Sign: |
Scorpio (Oct 23 - Nov 22) | |
Marital status: |
Separated | |
Have Kids: |
None | |
Want Kids: |
Yours are fine | |
Education: |
Some college | |
Income: | undisclosed | |
Relocation: | Yes | |
Relationship: | Serious relationship/marriage | |
My description:
I'm a veteran software engineer who has worked in customer support, teaching, appliance and computer repair, a handyman, and even was a nanny and housekeeper for a while when I was young, for a pair of 18-month old twins and their 8-year old brother. I am a very highly spiritual and ethical person, and have been a champion for women's empowernent. I believe in Samhaela (goodwill, platonic love, non-abandonment) and symbiosis as the highest truths. I am a fan of Madeleine L'Engle and the idea that love is the only weapon against evil and darkness.
I am a very caring and loving person and enjoy giving massage and doing things together, never alone. I love good conversation and close companionship.
Seeking:
I am looking for someone who wants to find someone like me and enjoys spending time together caring for each other and also taking care of life together. Someone who wants to be close in friendship and maybe more and not alone. A person who knows what they want and need and is willing to be in symbiosis where we mutually give and receive and grow and flourish together. I'm looking for someone to be close to, be honest with, and share time with, who likes touching and being touched, dancing and hugs. And someone who can stand equally with me as a partner, someone who chooses me not because they have to, but because they want to. The ideal partner is smart and courageous and kind and accomplished in their career like I am.